Discover the tools you need to form a deeper connection with your body and find your way back to health- By Susi Amendola
After a heart attack, it can be hard to regain trust in your heart, and for that matter, your entire body. Even though you may have overlooked the care of your body in the past and feel afraid of the future, it’s important to focus on rebuilding a trusting, compassionate and a healthy relationship with your heart.
It’s a process of befriending and rebuilding trust and compassion for your body. Paying attention to our nutrition, fitness and relationships all play an important role in finding our way back to health. There are also important stress management techniques that offer us powerful tools for trusting our bodies and mending and befriending our hearts.
Foster
Deep Listening: When we step onto our yoga
mat, we also step into a relationship with our body that is focused on deep
listening and conscious responding. We start to pay attention to our body’s
language and we become an advocate for that voice by honouring what it’s
telling us about ourselves.
Tools
For Listening:
Move More Slowly in Your Postures.: This is so you can hear and feel what the body is saying. If we move too quickly, we can get lost in letting our mind overpower, or even bully, our body into a position. When we slow down we are better able to listen to that first small signal that tells us we are nearing our edge of discomfort. When we notice that edge, we can pause to see if we can maintain our breathing and balance. Then we can ask ourselves these questions:
- “Should I pull back a little or is there room for me to
soften right where I am?”
- “Is there anything I am willing to let go of (physical
or emotional) that isn’t necessary for the maintenance of this pose?”
- “Could I stay here and breathe or does it feel better
to come out just a little?”
- “If there is a way to let go, does it allow me to move
in just a little deeper to the next edge, or is staying here on this edge
enough?”
We must
ask and we must listen. As we develop the conversation with our own bodies, we
start to trust what it is telling us and we begin to honour the intelligence
and wisdom it offers. We not only honour our body, but we may even expand our capacities
in a gentle way. We move on the mat with this awareness and wisdom, and we can
then bring these methods to our lives off the mat by learning to respect and honour
our limits and capacities.
Talk to Your Heart
We can do this anytime and anywhere, but it may be most effective when we are
lying down or sitting quietly with our eyes closed. This is when our body can
relax and our mind rests in our heart. In our gentlest internal voice, we can
start to befriend our heart. We might start the conversation by saying.
- “You are such a wise and loving heart. I am so grateful
for you.”
- “What is it that you need from me to be healthy and whole? What can I do to help you heal?”
- “Is there anything you want me to pay attention to that
I may be missing or overlooking?”
These
questions can be followed with a moment of silence and deep listening. The
heart may not answer in words, but it may send a feeling or image, or sense of
knowingness. Sometimes it doesn’t respond at all, but you may get an answer
later. What matters most is the process of asking and listening. This is what
strengthens your relationship to your own heart and your inner healer. In time
it allows you to begin to trust the wisdom of your own heart.
Foster A Grateful Heart
In addition, researchers at the University of Connecticut found that gratitude can have a protective effect against heart attacks. Studying people who had experienced one heart attack, the researchers found that those patients who saw benefits and gains from their heart attack—such as becoming more appreciative of life—experienced a lower risk of having another heart attack.
These practices quietly transform the heart that once seemed
as if it was our enemy into a loving and faithful friend.
Ms. Geona Tomy IIIrd B.Pharm

